Advice Archive: I'm Dreaming Of This Man

June 10, 2019

Name: Anonymous 26

Message: Hey. So I have this guy that I use to be best friends with, he moved to New York to pursue his dream to become a rapper and the last time I spoke to him was about six months ago because he told me that he had a girlfriend and she did not allow him to give out his number, but I just recently told him that I just got my GED. (Through IG) . But before that, I was having dreams about him not sexually though just friendly. Does that mean I have feelings for him? I’m kind of confused.

Hey Anonymous 26,

Having dreams about someone doesn’t mean you have feelings for them- not in the least. I have dreams about people I see on my Instagram timeline that I’ve never interacted with. You’re just able to recognize them when you see them in your dream because it’s a familiar face. I’m no dream interpreter, but I can tell you this means nothing much. Don’t think deep into this at all. I had a dream once where I was rowing a boat down the street with a few of my classmates. What would that mean for me? Not a damn thing lol.

I hope this advice helps you. -K