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“Omg where do I start!!!!!! You’ve help me sooo many times when I felt lost and confused about different things in life. Immediately always after hearing your advice I feel more confident and feel better about my situation. Girl your like a therapist, the homegirl and columnist ALL in one. Thank you for always being open minded and having the BEST advice.”
— nana1***@yahoo.com
“Just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate you for all you do. You’ve helped me when I really needed it. I hope you’re doing great & have everything you need in this time! Thank youuuuu!💞
— *****juice@gmail.com
“Hey girl your like a big sister I never had, you have all the right answers. I be on here all the times reading the advice that you give others and I sometimes can relate to some people so reading what you say to them is a help to me. You are really a blessing to us and we appreciate you ❤️ “
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“I wanted to thank you for the advice on the “No One Listens to Me” submission. No, I didn’t send it in, but it really and truly spoke to me.
I’m not going into a deep dive of everything because like you said, you’re not a therapist lol. Just wanted to thank you for the sound advice that will hopefully change all relationships in my life.”
— courtneyp*****@gmail.com
"Your advice has helped me greatly! Although, I haven't reached out in a bit, your advice helped me reevaluate myself and the choices I made in past situations. I appreciate you for taking the time out and offering advice to me especially when there are times I didn't know who to vent to or talk to . Thank you for your continued efforts in helping others and giving us an opportunuty for our voices to be heard. Thank you again and I hope to talk to you soon! -Jay"
— jayla**2@gmail.com
"You helped me get through some of the hardest situations that I have ever been faced with. You helped me see that these situations don't define me, it's just a lesson learned. Your advice helped me change my entire outlook on my life. I lost over 60 pounds and will be graduating college in May. Keep doing what you are doing because it's working. Thank you!
— chelseap******94@yahoo.com
“Great insight and so personable. Light-hearted, but Kiera get’s to the point!”
— ta***r.jazmine.k@gmail.com
“Hi love, i would like to say thank you so much for responding and giving me advice on what to do. I am the person who wrote to you about being depressed and having to take care of my mother. It feels good just to let everything out. Although i am overwhelmed and stressed out every single day i hope to find help soon so i can find me some me time (self care). So sorry that i am writing you this late but i just saw your response and wanted to thank you.”
— one of my followers, via Instagram dm
You’re so wise! I’m truly grateful for discovering you. You’ve helped me mentally so much. thank you.
— one of my followers, via Twitter dm
"I have written in multiple times because my life is a mess LOL. There are times where I don't know what I should do about a boyfriend or a best friend and then I'm like "OK what would candidlyk do??:" So I just write in for some advice and my questions are always like paragraphs on top of paragraphs of me giving you background information, trying to tell you the whole story so you get it and of course you always do lol.
I once wrote in about a boyfriend or well, ex-boyfriend and it was my first time writing in and I was nervous because I'm telling a complete stranger my personal problems. But I didn't feel judged or dumb, instead the advice I got back made me feel like I was in the kitchen talking to one of my close friends and drinking tea while spilling tea OK! Lol
I'm sure I'm going to have more shenanigans come my way and I will turn to candidlyk for the best advice.
Thank you for all your advice I don't know you personally, but I feel like I do and in my head we are great friends! Lol"
— **naibu**@gmail.com
"You literally answered every question I had. Even the ones I didn't mention in my submission. You are really my online therapist and I love it. You give the absolute best advice and I'm never disappointed nor left asking questions after reading your responses."
— grahmcaro****@gmail.com
“Thank you so much. You’re right. I don’t like to be seen as vulnerable & acknowledge the pain fr. & the fact that other races know just makes me feel like damn they probably think I’m hella sad n stuff. “No one is superior over Black women” you don’t know how hard I felt that. Thank you so much you really help me”
— obeym****@gmail.com, post advice feedback
